“Oh – so you feel upset. Read this.” – thanks Universe! It’s sometimes fascinating what messages come your (my) way and how timely they are.
Give up anger toward others and yourself.
See that the force of any heated reaction is not strength.
Remember that for any and everyday action of force, there is an equal and opposite one.
This explains why the fighting never ends.
Let it end.
Let it end. Give it a laugh. Begin again. How would you do it this time? How would you interact or react, this time? What would make this the greatest way possible. What would you do? What small thing would make a difference?
Just checking. Now, go do it.
Yes, let it end. Would you rather be right or have peace? Unfortunately, the two are usually mutually exclusive. I spent the entire weekend creating upset between my boyfriend and I because I was committed to being right about something and didn’t let it go. In the moment, he wasn’t willing to concede either. Eventually, we both apologized for what we did or said and the fighting did end. Today I’m present to wanting peace over being right. Thanks for the reminder.